Fall 2009

Hope for the Holidays

November 6, 2009

Friday, 7:00– 10:00 PM in the Student Center

Come for the Party, Stay for the Classes!

The holidays will be here before you know it; are you looking forward to that time or dreading it? If you have had a major loss as a result of the death of a loved one or the break-up of your marriage, you may not see the holidays like you did before. If it is hard for you to think about Thanksgiving and Christmas this year, join others who feel like you do by coming to the Hope for the Holidays Party and Class. We will discuss helpful and creative ways that just may make facing the holidays a little easier this year.  Don’t miss this one!

How to Get a Date Worth Keeping

December 9-December 16, 2009
Wednesday, 6:30-8:00 PM, SC 203, CD series

There are a reported 3.5 million evangelical Christian singles in America. Get sound advice on dating from author Henry Cloud in the short CD study. You may believe that dating is only for finding your future marital partner. Dr. Cloud suggests there is much value in non-serious dating and in fact is an essential step in the process of eventually finding a mate, because it teaches people what they need and want in a partner through trial and error. Learn how to get out there in the dating world. All Christian singles can benefit from this practical, down-to-earth study.

 

Solutions 
September 2, 2009, on-going
Wednesday, 6:30 PM- 8:00 PM
SC 201, no charge.  DVD series

Are you looking for ways to grow spiritually and improve your relationships?
Here’s a solution you might want to consider. These are weekly sessions on life, love, and relationships presented by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, authors of the bestselling “Boundaries” books and series.

2010

Boundaries
April 7, 2010-May 26, 2010 (13 weeks)
Wednesday, 6:30 PM-8:00 PM
SC 203, no charge

When to say YES, How to say NO; to take control of your life.
Living a life out of control? Do people take advantage of you? or Having trouble saying no? Boundaries define who we are and who we are not. They impact all areas of our lives: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits. Here are a few questions we might ask about setting boundaries:

        ·        Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
·        What are legitimate boundaries?
·        What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
·        How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
·        Aren't boundaries selfish?
·        Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?”

If these pique your curiosity, you might consider joining us.

January 6, 2010-March 31, 2009 (13 weeks) and June 6, 2010- September 8, 2010 (13 weeks)
Wednesday, 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM                                                          
SC 204, $15* DVD series                                            
*Alumni with workbooks are no charge

Divorce Hurts!
Find help at DivorceCare, for anyone separated or divorced. DC is a weekly support group for people going through the trauma of divorce. It's a place where you can be around people who understand what you are feeling. It's a place where you can hear valuable information about ways to heal from the hurt of divorce.

Financial Peace University

January 13, 2010 – March 31, 2010 (13 weeks)
Wednesday, 6:30pm—8:00pm
SC 203, cost $90 for materials *  DVD series
*Partial scholarships may be available.What will I learn?

Each of the 13 lessons deals with a different topic that will change the way you think about personal finance. Dave Ramsey, humorously and directly, (via DVD) teaches how to save money, live on a budget, communicate about money, eliminate debt, find bargains, and experience the joy of giving.

Moving Beyond*

(Pre-requisite: Making Peace with Your Past)

January 13, 2010-March 31, 2010 (12 weeks)
Wednesday, 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM
SC 203, $15

In Genesis it tells us we were created in the image of God, emotions and all. For many people, painful past experiences left us ashamed of our emotions.  In this class, God can guide and help you to learn to make significant changes.  You will learn new ways to respond to situations in a safe and caring small group environment.  

 

Search for Significance

April 7, 2010-May 19, 2010 (8 weeks)
Wednesday, 6:30 PM-8:00 PM,
SC 203, $15 (elevator available).      

This book started a quiet revolution and has become a modern classic and staple among Christian studies. This class looks at a false world view that says, “My performance + Other’s opinion = My self worth/value”. God’s Word says quite the opposite. Come to this class and see for yourself through topics such as:

        ·        The Origin of the Search
·        The Performance Trap
·        The Approval Addict
·        The Blame Game and Shame

See what the Bible says about redemption, justification, reconciliation, propitiation, and regeneration. These words will lead you to see yourself from God’s perspective, not a world’s perspective. Your life will never be the same gain!

On-going classes

Bereavement Ministry

We have all or will encounter painful times in our lives when we lose a loved one. 
We are called on to comfort each other during these times. Some people are good at written words. We need people who are willing to write notes to those in our family who have lost a loved one. Remembering them as they go through holidays (mother’s day, father’s day, Christmas) is a time that a note is also appreciated. Again, the note is a way to communicate that we remember and care about their loss and grief. If you are interested in helping us with note writing please contact Brooke Gage at 284-9333. 

Dealing with Dementia

For meeting times/places or other information, contact Becky Forrest at 918-798-1351.

Remember:  Laughter, Peace, and Person
Dealing with Dementia is a support group that seeks to provide educational resources, fellowship, and spiritual guidance through a loving, caring environment for family and friends of individuals affected by Dementia and Alzheimer’s. Our support group is open to caregivers, family, friends, and anyone eager to gain more information about these diseases. Our Leaders attend training via the Alzheimer’s association and also Facilitator training through Life Support Ministry of Arrow Heights Baptist Church.

Successful Stepfamilies Support Group

This group meets periodically with other stepfamilies in our community to learn new information about successfully blending a family.  The couples in the group share many experiences, the good, the bad and the ugly (funny but true).  Some of the topics we typically cover are:

1. How to strengthen your marriage relationship
2. Children and parenting issues
3. Handling Conflict and Fights.  

The comment we hear most often is, “This group is a lifeline to us – we might not have made it without the support and encouragement of this group.”  The group is open to anyone from the engaged couple to those married for years.  You may enroll by email gcall@arrowheights.org or call 455-5020 X 225.